I talk a lot, but i am also a very good listener. I know this about myself.
But what i have come to realize now is that these two things go hand in hand for me. Meaning if i am talking to a person or a group of people, i cannot be the only one talking, i need people to respond and contibute to the conversation. Similarly, i cannot be a silent listener, i have to have my say too. In the first scenario, i quickly lose steam and stop talking altogether and in the second scanario i get positively irritated if i cannot get my two words in.